am I the only one who had trouble shedding my shirt and my shame? Gabe told me that being big, gay and Asian has meant dealing with all of his identities and their different cultural perceptions of being overweight.Gabe, a Wisconsin resident and Midwesterner since birth, said growing up and entering the gay community meant learning quickly that there are schema for acceptable, normal bodies: the cis hairless twink, the sorta-hairy hunk or the gym bunny.We had been texting for a week or so and as the texts evolved, we showed less clothing and more skin, but I was reticent to lose my shirt. I'm pretty sure if you split my weight in two, you might get two skinny-but-not-too-skinny people.As I thought about putting my bare hairy stomach out into the world, I couldn't help but wonder ... And, like me, his journey to the shirtless selfie was a lifelong one.By the time he came out at 14, his family accepted him, and he was happy, except for the nagging issue of his weight."I was like, ' Oh my God, I'm fat, I'm never going to have a boyfriend, I'm never going to have sex,'" Lopez told On Lopez's 25th birthday, he was out at a club and a potential suitor approached him.It was this epiphany moment, and it was like, ' You know what, I am sexy.'" In fact, Lopez said, it wasn't until he was 30 that he attended an event in the bear community — a community of gay men who are usually larger, taller and hairier than one might find in the mainstream gay community. Many respondents told that the bear community was a surprising, welcoming refuge from spaces that might have been less friendly to their weight.Lopez said his whole world changed then, but that it's still not without its pressures. But, many also said that there are very few sexual or romantic depictions of big men.
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